Mostly child, like adults, prefer to do what they want to do. If a child is playing and you ask him/her to finish homework- he/she might just ignore what you said!
Children don’t listen to you because it isn’t pleasurable or convenient for to them to do so. They rather do what they love doing, or do just the opposite of what their parents want.
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- SPEAK IN A LOUD INSTRUCTIVE TONE
Parents often speak in a loud authoritative
voice. Then it becomes a habit with same child to only respond when they are spoken
to in a loud tone.
- USE SOME WORDS CHILDRENS DON’T LIKE
Parents often start their sentences with
words “why”, “if”, “you”, are the big negatives like “no”, “don’t “, and “can’t”,
these words stop child from listening to
you.
- TALK WITHOUT FIRST GETTING THE ATTENTION OF YOUR CHILD.
Parents start talking when the child is
busy doing something else. Instead, inform your child that you need to talk and
need their attention.
- ARE NOT A GOOD ROLE MODEL
Remember, your child will follow you, so, if
you are good listener, they notice that and do the same. But if they notice
that you don’t listen when someone talks or they talk, they too will follow
you.
Nice one it is exactly what children thinking is like, helpful for parents every parent should read this and it is also helpful for children and parent relationships too.😇😇😇
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